You have made the decision that you no longer want to be alone. Now what do you do.

The best way to find a lover, pen pal, single parent or a partner (be it Mr or Mrs) is to search online dating sites for a person who meets you standards, preferences and likes.

We recommend that you search MyElusiveLover where there are a number of dating sites that provide an excellent service for people of all persuasions.

Online you will find ethnic, religious, interracial and international dating sites. It is free to register on these sites and then peruse the sites to see if they provide what you are looking for in an online dating site. These sites also provide online chat services, which is a great way to get to meet someone and get the feel of their personality.

Just be yourself, and treat the other person as you would have them treat you. Do not give out too much detail about yourself (address or work) in the first couple of chats, and meet them in a public location when you meet for the first few times.