Now is the time to take the plunge and choose a online dating site. The big question is where do you start.

First things first - make a list about the sort of person you are hoping to meet. Their personality, likes, dislikes, interests and what ever else comes to mind.

This is important as it means that you will be targeting the group of people, who are registered with the dating site, and have similar interests as yourself.

Secondly write a list about yourself. What you see as your good points and your weakeness’. Yes we all have some of those, so be honest with yourself. This is probably going to be the hardest part as when we come to describing ourselves we have to dig deep, and most of us find that very hard. We are scared of digging up anything about ourselves that we are not happy about.

Remember to be honest about yourself as this is going to be your introduction to other dating site members and perhaps your future partner or lover. Treat them as you want them to treat you.



You have written your lists - what now. Easy go have a cup of coffee, go for a walk, do something which will get you away from the lists and will clear your mind. You are going to come back later and go over all these details and edit them. Yes there will be things you want to change, but that is natural.

Take the time now to review what you have written on your lists. Change what you think is a little over the top or not quite right or add more detail. Having done that, now it is time to draw up another list. More lists I hear you say…. yes, not much more to do now.

This time you need to edit the list down to what you are prepared to say about yourself when you register with the online dating sites. Don’t be shy about yourself, but also don’t be a braggart either. Somewhere during your registration details you are going to have to write a brief description about yourself, your likes, interests, hobbies. Keep it simple, at the same being personable and dynamic, without writing your life history.

Remember you are introducing your self to a stranger and you want them to have an interest in you, at the same time you don’t want to meet the wrong stranger just because you have exaggerated you lifes story.

Phew this is hard work. All this just to to register for a date. Actually this is going to make it easy when it comes to registering online. Now grab a recent photo of yourself and be prepared to upload this to the dating site also. The easiest way to remember someone and relate to them is to see their face. So just a facial shot is enough. This also is true if you are registering with an online adult dating service, keep some things secret for later on.

Okay, lets get online now and do some research into the dating sites. What you are looking for is a company that has been around for some time. Ideally not someone who has just put together a dating site and hasn’t developed a reliable reputation. The last thing you need now is a fly-by-night company. There are a few around in this field but they don’t last long.

Check out the sites at MyElusiveLover. These sites are screened on a regular basis and have been around for quite some time. There is a selection of sites aimed at your preferences, be they racial, religious or sexual. You will also find the opportunity to shop at MyElusiveLover, for gifts. These can be for yourself or a friend, in the line of jewellery or sexy attire.

Flowers are also a big winner, guys, when you are taking a lady out, and not just the first time you take her out. Relationships that have lasted for any period of time have been built around flowers and gifts - this includes you also girls. Unexpected gifts are a terrific way of saying how much you love or care for the person you are giving them to.